One of the easiest way to stand out in a crowd is to be unique. Be different among others and surely you'll be noticed. But of course, it ain't a one way ticket. You'll be recognized either because you did amazingly good or because you did gruesomely bad.
This thing goes the same in liking a person.We all have different standards in befriending someone. Some friends we have are either because we knew them through time or it could also be because they just did something that makes us like them so much that we don't want to miss an opportunity of befriending them.
Well, right as of this moment I'm actually stuck in a situation of wanting to talk yet I just feel to shy to approached someone. Yes! There's a person I want to be friend with yet I don't know how to approach. Oh well, I certainly know how to approach, it's just that I'm ashamed.
Goodness! my friends would certainly laugh their butt out once they'll hear this story. They'd never seen me ashamed of approaching a new acquaintance. This is actually one of those rare moments of my life that I am not my usual self.
Where is the most friendly personality of mine? Where is that Miss Smiley in me?
Fine. I admit, I chicken out this time.Urgh! Believe me, it's so frustrating. HAHA
Why on earth am I on this page? So, here it goes.
There's a cafe near at school that i usually hang out whenever I have vacant time. Either I just want to chill out and relax or I have to make a requirement for school. About a week ago, while I was having my chill moment someone sat beside the counter I was occupying. I actually didn't bother knowing who it was because I didn't have a care at all. I was busy with myself and my thoughts wander to my thesis that I badly had to review before I submit it to my adviser. But when he spoke with his friend, I literally turned my head towards his direction. . . why? Because he speaks good English with an awesome accent!
Wait a minute. It's not new to me to hear people conversing in English because I'm living with an English speaking person. What's new to me is to practically hear two Filipino speaking in straight English without giving a damn care in the world. Gosh! I had been dreaming of having a friend that would talk to me in English at all times!
Yeah, my friend do know how to speak good English but they aren't comfortable in conversing that language every day. Plus the fact that most of whom I knew who hear me speak in English would either tease me or tell me I'm being OA. Like duhh? I just want to practice more because I want my speaking skills to improve!
So back to the story with this Mr. English Speaking guy, I wanted him to become a friend because he uses English as his first language. Why did I say so? Well, I've seen him twice already in the cafe and nothing change. He definitely converse in English not only with his friends but also with everybody else he talks to.
Basically, it's settled that I want to be his friend. The only problem I have right now is to open a conversation without sounding crazy as I've been whenever I talk to my friends.